Never Get Caught in the Little Girls Category!

I received this below from a good friend of mine (hint: He runs ATL! )I have a little idea of where he thought I belonged! Humm!

Little Girls vs Grown Women!

Girls leave their schedule wide-open, waiting for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans, nicely tell guys to get in where they fit in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls try to put a man ‘on lock’ by using sex.
Grown women know that it’s the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to ‘lock’ you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, “Just stop”, get up, get dressed and walk it off.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it– using it as a time for personal growth. Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e, not want him to hang with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the “together time” even more special –and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ’show’ him by making him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his ‘manhood’.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that it was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ’signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn’t always love you back – and moves on, without bitterness.

Act Accordingly! 

Tchuss,

M.